The Moving Parade



Have you ever tried finding parking in a crowded city during rush hour? It can be pretty intimidating.

There you are surrounded by bumper to bumper traffic. You could be driving around for 15, 20, 30, 40 minutes… even up to an hour before you land a spot.

Cars, trucks and SUV’s flood the streets all at once, and everyone’s rushing to get home at frenetic speeds, like a movie in fast forward. It can get so cut-throat at times that you’ll find yourself reacting in self-defense just to avoid getting into an accident.

There are just too many cars for not enough parking spaces. What can you do?

A week ago in New York City, I was being driven around by my friend Joe during rush hour, going to meet friends for dinner. As we drove around looking for parking, you can easily believe it’s an impossible task. There was a parade-like formation of cars in front of us, scouring for any parking spaces left open and we were at least 5 cars behind!

I wanted to give up and find the easy way out: paid parking. But thankfully, my friend Joe was smarter than I.

He knew that the parked cars were there for a limited time. Eventually, some would have to move on and others would take their place – and he just had to be ready for the space he wanted. For when that window of opportunity opened up. You may imagine what he did.

He double parked in the area of the street where he wanted his spot and for 5 minutes we waited for a car to leave. For 10 minutes we waited. Finally, after 15 minutes (we were about to run late), a man approached his car.

And with that Joe pulled up, and positioned his car to take his place and gracefully pulled into it. If it weren’t for Joe, I have no shame admitting I would have thrown my hands up and given into frustration.

And that got me thinking. Isn’t this a perfect metaphor for the job market? Wasn’t this my experience when I got downsized during the credit crunch in 2002? And isn’t this how it must be for you if you’re looking for open positions in an over-crowded market right now?

Thankfully, when it comes to job hunting, I was smart like Joe. And I realized the same thing Joe did: the job market may be over-crowded, but it’s always a moving parade.

And that means no matter how bad it looks to you right now… no matter how much more competitive other people are compared to you, there’s always a window of opportunity that’s about to open up.

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Author: MarcoBronx

My name is Marco and I grew up in The Bronx (and no, I never met Jenny). In 1998 I graduated from NYU with a bachelor’s degree in Finance. After a few years playing Goldilocks and moving from small firms to medium-sized firms to large conglomerates, I realized something very important – I enjoy being in business, just not corporate business. Since I was seventeen years old, I’ve been a marketing consultant, real estate investor, appraiser, asset manager, analyst, broker, dating coach, and author. I’ve also run several NY startups around NLP, hypnotherapy, and finding jobs and relationships (to name a few). Some at the same time… most of them related, but separate. This is a place where I write what seems “worthy“. Sometimes I write personal development advice, sometimes my writings are meditations to myself – and I take you along – and sometimes I’m just playing Satan’s advocate to see how far I can challenge my beliefs, your beliefs or both. But it doesn’t mean I’m convinced yet. What’s the truth? You decide.